15 Best Sex Toys for Long-Distance Couples (Orgasmic Fun Guaranteed!) – 2023 Updated

We all crave intimacy and emotional connection, and this feeling is multiplied by a thousand if you can’t be with the one you love.

Sure, we can use Skype, FaceTime, and other texting tools to bond with each other, but anyone who’s been in a long-distance relationship knows that’s not enough to maintain sexual intimacy.

Luckily, thanks to modern technology, a little bit of imagination, and teledildonics, it’s now possible to have remote sex with your lover.


By using interactive sex toys!

Even though remote-controlled sex toys for long-distance couples may never be the same thing as real sex when you’re physically together, they still allow your partner to feel like they’re part of the action too!

What is Teledildonics?

While the word ‘teledildonics’ sounds like something out of a sci-fi movie, the meaning is actually pretty simple:

Teledildonics is just a technical term for adult toys that connect together via Wi-fi or Bluetooth for mutual masturbation and remote sex.

The toys ‘communicate’ with each other and you’ll feel the movements, vibrations, and even the intensity of your lover’s toy.

But the most exciting thing about LDR sex toys is that you can have full control over your partner’s pleasure:

Using a phone app or website, you can slow down the movements if you want to tease your partner or turn up the vibrations when they’re about to climax!

Sounds like fun?

Read on to find out more about the best sex toys for long-distance couples that you can buy today.

Best Connected LDR Sex Toys for Couples

Max 2 and Nora by Lovense

Features we love

  • Made from realistic-feeling materials
  • Rabbit-style vibrator
  • Long battery life
  • Quick response time
  • Smooth motions
  • Multiple control options available

Our favorite couples sex toys are made by Lovense, the undeniable leader in the Bluetooth sex toy market.

We both loved how natural the toys felt and the response time was amazing – everything happened in real time.


This set of Lovense Max 2 and Nora toys is pretty expensive, but I promise you it’s well worth the price.

The Nora is a rabbit-style remote vibrator with three power levels. The rotating head and flexible vibrating arm fit with my body perfectly and stimulated my clitoris and G-spot at the same time.

The Max 2 is a super realistic-feeling masturbation sleeve with three contraction settings and seven vibration patterns.

You can control both toys via the Lovense app or by moving one of them:

  • To make the head of the Nora rotate faster and stronger, thrust faster into the Max.
  • If you want to speed up the contractions of the Max, turn up the speed and vibrations of your Nora.

But what we really loved was that we could record the moves (and audio) of each session if we wanted to and then use these recordings whenever we felt like it privately!

The Lovense app has a messaging and call function, but you can also use any other video chatting services and only use the app to connect the toys if you so desire.

Lovense’s Max 2 and Nora are one of the best sex toys for long-distance couples. The response time is quick, battery life is long, and most importantly, the motions are smooth and intense to amplify the pleasure you can feel.

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Onyx+ and Pearl 2 by Kiiroo

Features we love

  • The Pearl is an advanced G-spot vibrator
  • The Onyx+ feels like real penetration
  • Touch-sensitive technology
  • Very soft, realistic-feeling materials
  • Syncs with adult content for extra fun

Kiiroo is another popular brand of LDR sex toys that produces some of the highest quality products in the industry.

We both loved the skin-like feeling of these toys and build quality has increased significantly over the first generation of these toys as well.

The Pearl 2 is a classic-style vibrator, with a focus on G-spot stimulation. It comes with nine different vibration settings and should fit most female bodies perfectly at its 7.5-inch length.

Although the Pearl is an excellent remote vibrator, I really loved the Nora by Lovense more.

Max, on the other hand, is a huge fan of the Onyx+. It’s similar to the Max 2 sex toy as it’s a male masturbation sleeve, but Kiiroo has taken things to the next level here:

The Onyx+ has 10 rings inside the toy and two air channels that create a natural suction sensation. Depending on the settings, Max swears it feels exactly like penetration or like he’s receiving a blowjob!

The best part? You can sync it to adult content to mimic the actions of a particular video. It’s great for those couples not afraid to use porn to increase sexual pleasure!

The Onyx+ is also super fast, making it feel as if he were actually inside you.

Titan and Cliona by Kiiroo

Features we love

  • The Cliona is best for clitoral stimulation
  • Both toys provide very powerful vibrations
  • Very smooth surface
  • Amazingly quiet during operation
  • Batteries last between 40-60 minutes

Another popular long-distance sex machine option from Kiiroo is the set of Titan and Cliona.

[Disclaimer: we opted for the Pearl/Onyx+ set reviewed above, so we can’t write from experience here. That said, this set has some cool features, making it worth a try.]

The Titan looks very similar to the Onyx 2, while the Cliona is definitely smaller than the Pearl (one of the reasons we didn’t go for this set).

The Cliona is designed for stimulating the clitoris rather than the G-spot.

The Titan is supposed to provide very powerful vibrations with its nine different levels for a truly intense remote sex or masturbation session.

The Titan is not touch-sensitive, meaning you need to manually adjust the vibration levels to control those of the Cliona. The vibrator, on the other hand, can be used to control the movements of the sleeve. Both can be controlled via Kiiroo’s mobile app.

The set is a great choice for women who love to take control of their partner’s pleasure.

Despite the Cliona and Titan both having powerful vibration motors and vibrations, they are also remarkably quiet.

The smooth surfaces are made out of silicone and ABS to create a very realistic and pleasurable feel.

The Cliona can be used uninterruptedly for an hour before needing to be recharged, while the Titan will last for around forty minutes.

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Onyx Couples Set by Kiiroo

Features we love

  • Offers 140 strokes a minute
  • Durable ABS plastic outer construction
  • The sleeve is removable and easy to clean
  • Lasts for one hour before needing to be recharged

The Kiiroo Onyx+ toy is an awesome masturbation sleeve and is available in a two-in-one package for gay couples.

The sleeve of the Onyx has contracting rings that create a wave and suction-like (read: blowjob-like) sensation as the air channels contract and expand repeatedly. You can increase or decrease the intensity for one another with Kiiro’s FeelConnect app.

You can also sync the sleeves to adult content available through the app and participate in the action!

The outer shell of the Onyx is built out of a high-quality ABS material, while the inside sleeve is removable, so it’s easy to clean after use. Take note that the Onyx is not waterproof, so it should not be used in the bath or shower.

The Onyx can last for one hour before needing to be recharged, and it requires a three-hour charge time.

Max 2 and Edge by Lovense

Features we love

  • Free of toxic materials
  • Air vent removes pneumatic forces
  • Comes with water-based lube for greater pleasure
  • Three different vibration levels
  • Lasts for three hours before recharging

Another excellent choice for remote gay sex is the Lovense Max 2 and Edge prostate massager set. Lovense has specifically designed the Max 2 with many features to maximize pleasure as much as possible.

The interior sleeve of the Max 2 is a very delicate and soft TPR material that will create a tantalizing feeling against your skin. Two buttons on the outside of the device control the level of vibrations that you feel.

There are three different vibration levels to the Max 2, which utilizes an air pump to deliver sensations to your shaft. The sleeve has a water-based lube coating on the inside to mimic a slippery feeling.

The sleeve is 6.5 inches long, and vibrations feel the strongest on top of the device and close to the entrance.

Connect the Max 2 to the Lovense app, and you can also control the vibrations that your partner will feel. The Max 2 will last for three hours before needing around an hour and a half to fully recharge.

The Edge is a prostate massager that can also be controlled remotely via the Lovense app.

Nora by Lovense

Features we love

  • Three different vibration/rotation speeds
  • Designed to stimulate the G-spot and clitoris at the same time
  • Lasts up to two hours before needing to be recharged

One of the best sex toys that lesbian couples can use for a steamy and intense sex session is the Lovense Nora.

The Lovense Nora is a wifi-controlled vibrator, curved perfectly to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot at the same time.

The arm of the device touches the clitoris, while the rotating head can be inserted into your vagina to stimulate your G-spot.

There are three different vibration/rotation speeds, and the intensity of the arm and the head can be increased or lowered separately. The sensation of stimulating the clitoris and G-spot at different speeds feels absolutely amazing!

You can control the vibrations either by using Lovense’s Body Chat app or manually with buttons located at the bottom of the toy. Besides controlling your own device, you can adjust the speed of your partner’s vibrator as well.

Nora will last for two hours before needing a recharge, which should be more than enough time for a steamy sex session.

Nova 2 by We-Vibe

Features we love

  • Comes with ten different vibration modes
  • Free of latex
  • Flexible design
  • Lasts for two hours before needing to be recharged
  • Waterproof

Another excellent sex toy for lesbians is the We-Vibe Nova.

As with any We-Vibe sex toy, the Nova can connect to the We-Connect app. With the app, you can control both the vibrations of your toy or your partner’s toy.

There are ten different pre-set vibration modes with the Nova. You can start at the lowest vibration mode with your partner, and then slowly build yourself up to the highest level. 

The Nova has a very smooth and flexible construction that is designed to stay in direct contact with your clitoris even as your body moves around from intense pleasure. 

The Nova will last for two hours before needing a recharge of at least ninety minutes. It’s also waterproof so you can use it in the bath, shower, pool, or hot tub.

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Best Long-Distance Plugs

Hush by Lovense

Features we love

  • Most powerful wireless vibrating butt plug
  • Syncs to music
  • Latex and rubber free
  • Made out of a very smooth, silicone material
  • Spirals make it easy to remove after a session
  • A flared base ensures the plug is safe to use

The Lovense Hush is the very first wireless vibrating butt plug in the world. It’s a very smooth, vibrating toy made out of silicone, and is free of rubber and latex.

The spirals on the neck are designed to trap lube near your sphincter muscles, thus making the Hush very easy to remove after a long session.

Don’t worry,

Even though it’s very easy to remove, the Hush plug is also designed to stay in place for as long as you want to continue to have fun with it!

The base of the Hush has been flared to ensure that it stays safe and doesn’t become lost or stuck in your rectum. This is one of the most important safety measures for any butt plug to have!

The Hush is controlled using the Hush app and is compatible with any Android or iOS device that comes with Bluetooth.

With the app, you can set the vibration levels to pleasure your partner from many miles away (or your partner can use the app while you use the plug yourself).

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Ditto by We-Vibe

Features we love

  • Available in midnight blue and purple
  • Easy to sync and use with the We-Connect app
  • Made out of smooth, silicone material
  • Its small size makes it easy to explore this genre of sex toys
  • You can create your own custom vibration settings in addition to the 10+ pre-set modes

Another good option for a butt plug is the We-Vibe Ditto. It is a vibrating butt plug that is designed to be used during solo masturbation, mutual masturbation, foreplay, virtual sex, or real-life sex. 

The Ditto is one of the smaller and slimmer butt plugs on the market, so it’s much easier to explore and have fun with. It’s also very smooth, thanks to its silicone material.

To use the Ditto with your partner, connect it to the We-Connect app first. There are ten different pre-set vibration modes with the Ditto, which you can control from across the world using either the app or the remote provided with the plug.

In addition to the pre-set vibration modes, the We-Connect app also allows you to create your own custom vibration modes at your desired intensity levels.

Best Long-Distance Vibrators

Chorus by We-Vibe

Features we love

  • Easy to adjust
  • Lasts up to 90 minutes on a single charge
  • Comes with ten different vibration modes
  • The vibrations intensify the more you squeeze it
  • 100% waterproof

The We-Vibe Chorus is a high-quality long-distance vibrator that can be used either alone for solo masturbation or a (remote) sex session with a partner.

Stimulating your G-spot and clitoris at the same time, the We-Vibe Chorus is designed to intensify its vibrations the tighter you squeeze it.

As with all We-Vibe products, the Chorus connects to the We-Connect app. Through the app, your partner can use the Squeeze Remote feature to increase the intensity of the vibrations you feel.

The Chorus long-distance vibrator will last up to 90 minutes on a single charge and comes with a USB cable for charging. It’s also 100% waterproof, meaning you can use it in the shower, bath, pool, or hot tub.

Lush 2 by Lovense

Features we love

  • Most powerful vibrator
  • Comes with seven different vibration modes
  • Can last up to four hours before needing recharging
  • Provides more intense vibrations than the original Lush
  • Made out of a smooth, silicone material

Another excellent long-distance vibrator is the Lush 2 by Lovense, an upgraded version of the original Lush vibrator.

The Lush 2 offers significantly more powerful vibrations than the original Lush, which will lead to more intense orgasms.

Made out of a smooth, silicone material, the Lush 2 is curved to hit your G-Spot and stimulate your clitoris simultaneously

One of the best features of the Lush 2 is how long it can last: up to four hours before needing to be recharged again. If there’s any vibrator on the market that can provide you with the maximum pleasure for the maximum amount of time, it’s the Lush 2!

The Lush 2 connects to the Lovense app, which you will need Bluetooth capability to use. Your partner can then use the app to control the intensity of your vibrations from many miles away, or you can control it yourself.

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Bloom by We-Vibe

Features we love

  • The vibration feature will make your daily Kegel exercises fun
  • Made out of a smooth, silicone material
  • Has three progressive weights that are easy to change

The We-Vibe Bloom is designed to make it both fun and easy to do your daily Kegel exercises. If you don’t know, then Kegel exercises strengthen the muscles in your pelvic floor, supporting your bladder and uterus.

When it comes to sex, Kegel exercises can strengthen your pelvic and vaginal muscles so you can tightly squeeze around your partner’s shaft when he enters you. This should create more intense sexual pleasure and long-lasting orgasms for both of you.  

It’s very easy to use the Bloom:

Simply slip it in and then squeeze your muscles around the device. You can also switch on the vibration feature to make your Kegels feel more pleasurable and not just a routine exercise.

Connect the Bloom to the We-Connect app to switch between pre-set vibration levels, or set your own customized options. Alternatively, if your partner has the app, they can control the vibrations you feel remotely as well.

The Bloom is made out of very smooth silicone, and there are three weight options (10 grams, 30 grams, and 45 grams) that are very easy to change.

Ella Neo by Svakom

Features we love

  • The swirled, ribbed design provides greater stimulation
  • Ten different vibration modes
  • Very smooth silicone material
  • Works very quietly
  • Intelligent app control
  • Beautiful design

Another great long-distance egg to improve your Kegel exercises with is the Svakom Ella. The Ella is a high-quality bullet egg with a very ergonomic design and smooth silicone material.

Besides helping you with your Kegel exercises, the Ella can also be used as a fun sex toy:

Its swirled, ribbed design and the ten available vibration modes provide excellent stimulation to your vagina.

The vibrations are virtually silent, so you can focus more on your breathing and the passion of the pleasure you feel.

Lik all smart sex toys, the Ella can be controlled through a mobile app, available for both Android and iOS devices.

Bonus – DIY Dildo!


If you could clone your own penis (or your partner’s penis), would you do it?

Believe it or not, this is exactly what the Clone-A-Willy is for!

clone a willy penis casting kit

While it may not create a literal clone of your penis, it can create a very close copy of it to be used as a sex toy. And no, it’s not a joke or a gimmick!

The Clone-A-Willy kit comes with a vibrator, molding powder, thermometer, a balsa wood mixing stick, and two silicone gel jars.

The items ship in a plastic tube that will be used for the molding mixture.

In addition to the above items, you will also need clean water, a plastic container, and a bowl.

To use the Clone-A-Willy, follow these steps:

  1. Heat the water at 90 degrees Fahrenheit
  2. Mix the water with the molding powder for 45 seconds
  3. Pour the mixture into the tube
  4. Insert your erect penis into the tube (your penis must be as fully erect as possible for this to work properly)
  5. Hold your penis carefully for at least four minutes and make sure it does not touch the sides of the tube
  6. Remove your penis from the tube
  7. Pull away the mold
  8. Mix the silicone together using your plastic container and mixing stick
  9. Fill the mold with silicone
  10. Give the silicone mold around twenty-four hours to fully dry
  11. Slide out the silicone mold from the container

Assuming you followed the above steps correctly, you can now send your ‘penis clone’ to your partner for a sexy surprise.

They’ll then have a dildo to play with that’s literally the exact same shape, length, girth, and unique features as your real penis.


clone a pussy Casting Kit

As the name suggests, the Clone-A-Pussy kit is the female alternative to Clone-A-Willy and is designed to create a ‘clone’ of your vulva.

The kit comes with a male masturbation sleeve, alginate powder, a mixing stick, and two tubes containing the silicone.

You will also need a disposable plastic container and a measuring jug.

Using the Clone-A-Pussy is very similar to the Clone-A-Willy:

  1. Heat the water to 90 degrees Fahrenheit
  2. Mix the alginate powder with the water as smoothly as you can
  3. Pour this mixture into the black mold until full (any leftover you can place into the mixing bowl)
  4. Press the mold tightly against your vulva for at least four minutes
  5. Bend forward to ensure that the mold is kept level (some women report that sitting down with their legs open is the most effective method)
  6. Proceed to peel the mold from your vulva (take note that air bubbles are normal)
  7. Take the two tubs of silicone and pour both into your disposable container
  8. Mix the silicone with the mixing stick; avoid trapping air bubbles into the mixture
  9. Pour the silicone into the mold using a thin stream
  10. Encourage any trapped air bubbles to rise by tapping the frame a few times as necessary
  11. Wait for twenty-four hours to remove your cloned pussy from the mold

By following the above steps correctly, you will have transformed your vulva into a beautiful work of art. The resulting ‘clone’ should have the exact same size, shape, and other features as your real vulva.

Send it on over to your partner, who lives far away from you. They’ll definitely appreciate it!

What to Consider Before Buying Long-Distance Sex Toys?


The size of your sex toy is very important, but for women, this can be very challenging. To figure out the ideal size of dildo or vibrator you need, you’ll need to use a tape measure or your fingers to get an approximate idea of what will be pleasurable for you.

For men, it’s much easier. Carefully measure the girth and length of your penis when erect to determine which products will fit you.

You don’t want a masturbation sleeve to be so tight around your penis that it causes pain, but also not so loose that it can’t create enough pleasure.


The sex organs are among the most sensitive of the body, and any sex toy(s) you use shouldn’t have any adverse effects on it or your health.

For example, many sex toys utilize latex, which roughly 4% of the general population is allergic to.

Other materials commonly used in sex toys to watch out for include:

  • Vinyl
  • Jelly
  • PVC
  • Phthalates

If you ever encounter any physical discomfort from using a sex toy, quit using it once, and avoid using sex toys made out of the same materials.


When choosing the sex toy that can hopefully create the most amount of pleasure and intense orgasms, you need to ask yourself what really turns you on and feels exciting.

For women, do you prefer your G-spot to be stimulated, or are you more into stimulating your clitoris?

For men, do you prefer to have your penis stroked directly, or are you more into stimulating the other erogenous zones such as the perineum or prostate?

Only you can decide.


It’s no secret that sex can be a very messy affair. After a long and passionate sex session, your interactive toys can become covered in all sorts of bodily fluids.

Make it a habit to always clean your sex toys after use, so they are clean and ready to go for the next round.

In addition to any instructions supplied by the manufacturer, you should rinse your toys off with water and then further sanitize them with anti-bacterial wipes.

Pros and Cons of Long-Distance Sex Toys

Interactive sex toys are great for providing sexual intimacy between long-distance couples, but they are also not for everybody. But you can also go for more traditional sex toys, take a look at Absolut Adult – an UK based sex toys store.

Some of the pros and cons of long-distance sex toys include:


  • Lots of different options at nearly any budget  
  • They’re a viable way to engage in sexual intimacy with your partner while living far away from each other
  • Women can more easily orgasm, as many struggle to do so with traditional intercourse
  • They can be used for both virtual sex with your partner or masturbation when you’re alone


  • Most electronic sex toys need to be recharged every hour or so
  • They require a reliable internet connection
  • Some people may be averse to the idea of using sex toys
  • Ultimately, they are only a substitute for actual sex and are not the real thing  

We are Max from France and Ella from Finland. We met in Australia in 2008 while we were both backpacking around this amazing country. After returning to Europe, we went through all the hardships of a long-distance relationship for almost three years! And we survived it!

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